Uh oh! Have those smoldering coals turned to cold, gray, used-up briquettes?
Every relationship goes through phases. But has it been far too long since you've looked deep into his eyes and seen those embers glowing? In fact, can you even remember the last time you looked deep into his eyes?
Sure, as time passes, those romantic moments can grow fewer and further between. But there's no reason you can't get the fire of the early days rekindled now that you know (and love!) each other better. Usually, it's simply a matter of bringing your attention to bear on the subject. Oh, and using plenty of imagination. Here are just five easy tips to bring intimacy back to your relationship:
1. Make a list of all the things you love about him, and leave it on his nightstand.
There's nothing like feeling loved to get a little more love flowing!2. Set aside special time, free of distraction and worry, just for you two. That's right: The stress of everyday life can be the number one intimacy killer. So check your boss's unreasonable demands at the door and settle in for a nice cozy evening together.
3. Buy a sexy set of new lingerie. Yep, it sounds simple. But it works.
4. Get out the old photos and take a trip down memory lane together. Sure, it may be cheesy. But there's nothing like going over the good times to make you realize what you two have got, together.
5. Kiss for five minutes a day. Every day. No matter how late for work you are. That's right: Intimacy is like working out at the gym. If you don't do it, on a daily basis, you won't see any results.
Doesn't sound that hard, does it? Well, it's not rocket science. But recapturing that intimacy you once shared is a project that demands a lot of good old-fashioned tender loving care. Don't fall right back into those old habits! Ask yourself:
- Why is it important to me to feel connected to my partner?
How do I show myself and my partner just how important this is?
What is one simple thing I can do every day to keep the intimacy alive?
Knowing the answers to these questions will help keep you right on track to getting your intimacy back!
Sincerely,
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